I spent every spare minute from the time he proposed up until I walked down the aisle preparing for my wedding and honeymoon. Everyone tells you about the stress, the hiccups, and the tears, what they don't tell you about is the feeling of "What do I do now?" and "How does this all work?" after you get back from your honeymoon and you suddenly have all of this free time. I have been back in the real world for exactly 3 days...what now?
Sunday, September 25, 2016
DO WHAT YOU WANT
I CAN NOT STRESS THIS ENOUGH!!! DO NOT, I REPEAT DO NOT, LET ANYONE TELL YOU WHAT TO DO WHEN IT COMES TO YOUR WEDDING!!!
I almost cancelled my wedding because of silly traditions. People will tell you all day everyday "It's your wedding, you should do what you want!" And then in the next breath say "Don't do that. I don't like that. You shouldn't do that." If it's not your intended or your wedding planner then ignore it. Period.
You want to wear a white dress? WEAR IT!
You want to only invite 10 people? DO IT!
You want to walk down the aisle by yourself? STRUT YO STUFF GIRL!
You want to have a destination wedding? TELL THEM TO EITHER COME OR NOT!
Let me tell you all something, I had people not come to my wedding because I did a church invitation and they didn't get a personal one. One invitation for the entire church. I announced it myself twice, it was put up on the screen during the announcements and the invitation was put on the bulletin board. I refused to buy 160 extra invitations. And you know what? My wedding and reception were absolutely perfect.
As long as it's what YOU want, go for it! Don't get upset when people have something to say, because trust me, they will.
Rant Over
XOXO -Determined Bride
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